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  • Pope Francis goes home to the Father.

    I’ve found it a little challenging to write this post. My previous post on Pope Francis was written the day Our Holy Father went to be with the Lord. Time has passed, reality I suppose has set in. As I watched the funeral of Our beloved Pope, I felt an overwhelming sense of sadness, but also amidst this sadness, I felt an incredible sense of hope.

    My sadness was the type you feel when having experienced the loss of a dear family member or friend. With this type of sadness comes a sense of loss and feelings of insecurity. Pope Francis gave me a sense of security; in his ethos, his values, the way he lived his life, the message he preached across the globe. He wasn’t one to teach something and live a life totally contrary to his teachings. He taught ‘humility’ and lived this virtue. Simplicity and lived a simple life right up to his death and funeral. He willed a simple headstone and chose a simple casket.

    Pope Francis greeting well wishers

    Build bridges not Walls

    Pope Francis gave us a sense of hope and comfort, a real sense of security and certainty, that, in these challenging and uncertain times there was someone who wasn’t afraid to say what they believed and to stand by their conviction, even if this meant (at times) going against popular opinion. He truly was a man of Integrity. He believed in the core values of, the sacredness of human life and upholding the dignity of each and every person. His ethos was that of global peace. Compassion towards migrants, prisoners, the poor and those on the peripheries of society. He once referenced ‘Building bridges and not Walls.

    At his Papal Coronation Pope Francis being inspired by the wonderful Saint Francis of Assis took the name Francis. Saint Francis of Assisi lived a life of poverty, one devoted to God and had a strong desire to promote peace and love among all people. This is the life Pope Francis also lived.

    A Stone statue of St Francis of Assisi

    The Greatest Commandment is Love

    The Holy Father had a deep unwavering love and devotion for the Blessed Mother and encouraged all of us to see the commonalities we share and not our differences. He had a deep reverence and appreciation for the Blessed Sacraments especially the sacraments of Reconciliation and the Holy Eucharist and encouraged all Catholics to take advantage of these divine graces, by making them a regular practice. He offered his life in service and encouraged each of us to do the same.

    During the funeral Cardinal Giovanni Battista Re said something that, as Christians we know is obvious, but also as Christians we sometimes forget, ‘We are all children of One God, Our Father’ he said.

     Wow… just wow… this made me stop and think. We are all created by God (Our Father) so we are unequivocally brothers and sisters in Christ regardless of our race, creed, sex, culture.  How do I treat my brother or sister in a country different from my own?

    As we share the same Father, we should follow Pope Francis’ example and reach out in love to those of our brothers and sisters in need. We need to build bridges between races, cultures, creeds and faiths.

    In the silence that surrounded me, I thought, ‘wouldn’t it be wonderful if we had a world without borders but joined together by bridges.

  • Mary full of grace why you seek her counsel

    Mary has 26 titles one being ‘Mother of Perpetual Help’.

    Mary prays for us Sinners

    Hail Mary full of Grace, the Lord is with thee, blessed art thou among women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus. Holy Mary Mother of God pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.

    I Love Mary, Mary is my Mum

    I was reading today about Blessed Carlos Acutis he called the Rosary the ‘shortest Ladder to heaven’. Isn’t it beautiful to know that praying the rosary is a simple, beautiful way to attain Heaven.

    I actually wasn’t intending on writing the whole Hail Mary Prayer, but how could I not. The words are so beautiful, poignant and apt. It took my years to reconcile the words in the Hail Mary prayer with the actual reality. Often times, we recite words, of the rosary, of the Divine Mercy Chaplet, but do we deeply think about the words we’re reciting?

    Hail Mary Full of Grace. Yes, Mary is full of grace

    What is Grace? the Catechism of the Catholic Church defines grace as this; ‘Grace is favour, the free and undeserved help that God gives us to respond to his call to become children of God, adoptive sons, partakers of the divine nature and eternal life’

    Let’s break that down a bit. Grace is the favour, the free and undeserved help that God gives us…

    So, Mary is full of that favour (act of kindness, beyond what is due or usual) she helps us, despite the fact that we don’t deserve that help, because we are sinners, and she asks for nothing in return. All Mary wants from us is to know and love her son, Jesus.

    A man holding Rosary Beads

    Wow, isn’t that so humbling. In a later blog, I’ll share with you an intimate encounter with Mary. One evening in absolute desperation I begged My Mother to help me in a difficult situation I was facing, the next morning my prayer was answered. Later on that day as I pondered on the Hail Mary prayer it really hit me that Mary is truly full of grace, through Mary God gives us free and undeserved help.

    My Ask

    Ladies and Gents, I ask you, I beg you to get to know Mary, she is a wonderful Mother. I have been blessed with two wonderful Mothers, my earthly Mother, and my Spiritual or Heavenly Mother, Mary. I had a great relationship with my biological Mother, she was my best friend, my confidante, my advisor, my comforter, she was my everything. Now she has gone to be with Mary her mother and mine, Mary is with me.

    Live by faith not sight

    Though I cant see Mary I share the same relationship I had with my earthly Mother with Mary my Heavenly Mother. Mary is my best friend, my confidante, my comforter, Mary is my everything. The best part is, its so easy to relate to Mary because she is a Mother just like me, she is a wife, just like me, a daughter, a relative an in-law just like me.

    Ladies, get to know Mary she is a wonderful woman. Ask Mary how become a more supportive, loving spouse. Seek her guidance on how to guide and lead your children to faith in this crazy world. Seek her counsel in everything. I pray to Mary when I face difficulties with my children, I have 2 boy…( say no more 😊).  Mary has always been my solace, my help, reach out to Mary, she is waiting as a loving Mother.

  • Pope Francis.. A great Man, a wonderful Shepherd

    Today, many across the globe will be mourning not just a great shepherd of the Catholic Church, but also a wonderful human being, with a kind and gentle spirit. ‘The world has lost a great Man’. I hear this phrase used a lot when actors and other famous people die. This perhaps, is the first time I have used this phrase, its not a phrase I use lightly but one that our blessed Pope Francis truly deserves.

    Pope Francis blessing Children

    Pilgrims of Hope

    I don’t often mourn someone that I haven’t had a personal encounter with. Strangely enough, I feel as though I had a personal encounter with Pope Francis even though I only ever watched him through the TV screen, or heard him on the radio. He was a man that resonated so much love and peace. An advocate of the marginalised, migrants and the vulnerable. His theme for this Jubilee Year is ‘Pilgrims of Hope’. As Catholics and pilgrims on our faith journey we need to bring hope to those Pope Francis spoke so fondly of, our brothers and sisters in Christ, the marginalised, migrants, the vulnerable and all those that feel shut off from this world.

    The Little Way

    St. Therese Lisieux is known as the ‘Little Way’ because of her simple approach to life and in particular her spiritual life – (I’ll be doing a blog on St.Lisieux one of my favourite saints later). Her approach and example shows us we don’t necessarily have to be a Pope, a Saint or even a religious to do something of significance in our life of faith. We could start by carrying on the torch of Pope Francis by doing something to help the poor, migrants in our community and country and the vulnerable.

    A link below to the life of a wonderful man. May his soul rest in perfect peace

    An intimate look inside Pope Francis’ life at the Vatican